tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4412335395838943786.post1323464664481947465..comments2023-09-25T05:14:31.474-04:00Comments on Life After the Aisle: Pieces of MeAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08806510147628112303noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4412335395838943786.post-6521102449437366722011-11-11T16:22:41.921-05:002011-11-11T16:22:41.921-05:00I had kind of a similar instance happen to me my s...I had kind of a similar instance happen to me my sophomore year of college. And even though it isn't the same by far, it is very similar so I'm sorry you had to deal with that. <br /><br />And yes I think about past friends and relationships. It down right sucks too sometimes :)Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05620304858463524343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4412335395838943786.post-37299942217687723322011-11-10T16:57:29.801-05:002011-11-10T16:57:29.801-05:00I totally understand this and I am so sorry! I had...I totally understand this and I am so sorry! I had a similiar situation with a friend while I was planning my wedding...she told me I was asking too much of her!? We have not talked since and she de-friended me. I have sent her messages and friend requests...I suppose her life is just too full to add me into it. Sad! I wish you had some closure with your friend!Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10104059549970550399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4412335395838943786.post-36234977406108568782011-11-10T14:45:21.687-05:002011-11-10T14:45:21.687-05:00I can understand your reason for still thinking ab...I can understand your reason for still thinking about her because you don't have closure due to her bizarre disappearance. I think it's clear that you'll just have to learn to live without the closure and move on. I've had so many friends come and in out of my life and they're there for the right time period and then they might leave. It's part of life. Congrats on your home coming to together!Danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05247333316970706779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4412335395838943786.post-77623243910074798562011-11-10T13:03:07.381-05:002011-11-10T13:03:07.381-05:00sometimes i believe that certain people are just i...sometimes i believe that certain people are just in your life for a season. when you need them to actually get through with something in your life. once that part of your life is figured out they are needed no longer and then they leave just as the seasons.<br /><br />it is easy to think of old friends, i do that sometimes. sometimes, i wonder how life would have been different if the friendship never ended. i see old friends of mine who are now married, have kids, etc and i know that if you told me years ago that i would not be a part of this time in their life, i would have laughed. but they aren't and it is OK. they are OK, i am OK.<br /><br />at the end of the day, life is just as it was meant to be. we can't change it but we can always think of the past and the people who made us who we are today but unfortunately those people no longer make my world go round and i don't make their world go round anymore either. <br /><br />can't wait to see pictures of the house! i can only imagine how excited you are to have all the floors done in the house!!Faithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15614940560800247144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4412335395838943786.post-57729844300168366962011-11-10T12:25:44.193-05:002011-11-10T12:25:44.193-05:00Definitely don't consider yourself a Debbie D!...Definitely don't consider yourself a Debbie D!!! This is YOUR blog and you can write about and express whatever you have to! I consider my blog cheap therapy. Lot's of inspiration, motivation, happy happy hoo haa, but then all of a sudden I break down and realize it's not rainbows and butterflies and use my blog to VENT (see yesterdays post, for example, lol)<br /><br />I actually commend and applaud you for writing about your friend. I had a falling out with my best friend of 15 years about 2 years ago. I reached out through calls, texts, voicemails, facebook messages - hell, I even called her all the way from Germany on her birthday last September. She finally responded to me when I wrote her quite a lengthy message that I was picking my bridesmaids and I couldn't imagine her not being one, even if we hadn't talked in a couple of years. She was my best friend since 4th grade. Her response was that our friendship became something forced and not real. That was the ultimate slap in the face to me, and I realized if she didn't need me, I didn't need her. I "unfriended" her on Facebook and I never looked back.<br /><br />Remember that the people you need in your life need you in theirs too. You're better off without her Ashley - but definitely be appreciative of the burn and learn she put you through and always be fond of the memories.Kym @ Travel Babbleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08820908415315702778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4412335395838943786.post-79156701576780316202011-11-10T12:21:45.359-05:002011-11-10T12:21:45.359-05:00wow that is so weird. why wouldn't she at leas...wow that is so weird. why wouldn't she at least tell you what happened?? yeah that would drive me crazy, but in the end i guess i would just assume that people like her must be super weird asnd not have any guts bc why else couldn't she at least give you an explanation. maybe her boyfriend secretly had a crush on you or something...Newlyweds on a Budgethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10165059665185786849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4412335395838943786.post-46078703145503589622011-11-10T11:30:59.885-05:002011-11-10T11:30:59.885-05:00I had the exact thing happen to me. My friend and ...I had the exact thing happen to me. My friend and I moved in together and it was amazing! She then met a guy, and one day she was gone..literally. We reconnected after about 2 years, and sorted things out. If she doesn't want in your life, it's her loss!!Nikkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04838276057255630092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4412335395838943786.post-85422162705915049682011-11-10T11:30:34.551-05:002011-11-10T11:30:34.551-05:00Wow, that girl is really weird!!! What friend leav...Wow, that girl is really weird!!! What friend leaves without saying goodbye or without any explanations?!?! What a friend! Not getting a closure must be so frustrating!!!Café Mokahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13679281354474165172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4412335395838943786.post-74760023377996842372011-11-10T11:22:17.955-05:002011-11-10T11:22:17.955-05:00I completely understand. I had the same thing happ...I completely understand. I had the same thing happen to me in college, well a similar situation. It's a horrible feeling but look at you now, you are so happy! That's the way I look at it, I wish some of my friends could be a part of my happiness now but it's their loss.<br /><br />XOXO,<br />Lori<br />www.vintagebylori.blogspot.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04376323452381217347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4412335395838943786.post-91456841123074479322011-11-10T11:16:03.009-05:002011-11-10T11:16:03.009-05:00A version of this story has been floating around m...A version of this story has been floating around my own mind as I feel it being written. I have a girl she is currently my MOH but recently she's just been ignoring me and I'm beginning to think a similar situation is about to happen. I can't decide whether to fight or just move on... It's tough. <br /><br />But thanks for sharing.rkjalernpanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14722727166526081144noreply@blogger.com